Counting Blessings

7 weeks home; 2 surgeries; 6 whole hospital days plus visits; 9 wound sites; 16 medications; many hours of extra help…but not enough; 1 tired, crazy mamma and infinite trust and patience (mostly) from a 14 year old girl. The numbers are overwhelming but can never tell the whole story (as a maths head it pains me a little to say that!). It is the moments between the numbers that count. (Pun unintended…or was it?)
To say Missy’s orthopaedic surgeon is amazing is both unusual (orthos are not always renowned for their sunny disposition) and an understatement. The work he does on my girl scares me but, even when he changed the consent form moments before I signed, he has the skill, confidence and charm to win us over. He is dedicated and fiercely supportive. He pauses and takes the time to talk with her.
There have been times of pain and grumpiness for Missy…too many. Amongst it though the girl has used her words. She worked so hard to describe how she was feeling and what she needed. Her ability to differentiate between discomfort due to muscle spasms and other pain and then request the specific medication blew me away. She is proud of herself too.
And the difference? She is only just out of plaster so it’s not all apparent yet but what we can see is wow! Imagine trying to sit a plank of wood in a wheelchair. Then, just when you manage to bend enough to get in, it straightens again…that was our girl. Now she sits tall and proud with her bottom all the way back in her chair. And her feet! Her left foot has been transformed from a twisted mess to an actual foot. Dancing is already more comfortable for her which is great because her motivation for all of this was …”I dance”.
The irony of this little post-surgical contemplation and finally having a few minutes to sit and write? The draft was written on the only piece of paper I had with me…the back of a hospital appointment letter. This life! Amongst the challenges and fatigue and heartache there are blessings. And I am glad of a little time and quiet to count them.

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